a moment of clarity in mommyland

me–40-something motorcycle mama
boyo–my son, matthew, otherwise known as ‘the boy’, born 1998
the fabulous ungkl pol–my brother, paul, spelled the way matthew spelled it
ant natlee–ungkl pol’s sensible counterpart, paul’s wife, hence matthew’s aunt
BFG–warren, my significant other, the big, friendly giant and husband
bfg–my stepson, marshall
lenny–aka–leonard ‘c’ (for cowardly) skinner–the cat